All About Kink: An Introduction

14 May

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It all started in high school (doesn’t everything “bad” start in high school?).  It might have been the plethora of young adult vampire novels I devoured (yeah, there were addictively effeminate vampires before Twilight) but I prefer to think it all started on one rare occasion that I had the house to myself for an afternoon.  And I,of course, seized that opportunity to masturbate.

As a teenager without a credit card, I very quickly ran out of “mainstream” porn clips to facilitate my wantonness.  Not content to rewatch what I’d already seen, I decided to branch out and venture to the  mysterious section called “BDSM”.  Though the quality was low and the clip was only a few minutes long, I was immediately enchanted with the power play and bondage gear.

Today I am a sexually liberated young woman, but I have yet to go beyond the occasional bedroom handcuffing and bondage film.  My ex and I owned a collection of the basic bondage gear (though we rarely used it) but he took that when we broke up.  So now I ogle the collars, cuffs, gags, harnesses, and clamps when I’m shopping for sex toys, but I never buy them.

Pamela Madsen’s Shameless finally got my mouth watering again, but not quite in the way I was expecting.  Madsen was coached by professionals in domination, culminating (in the book) in a sort of BDSM conference in San Francisco.  That’s a far cry from getting your boyfriend to tie you to the bed and go a little rougher than usual.  Needless to say, I’ve started craving something more.

So I’ve decided to go out and get what I want.  I love my lovers and we have amazing, passionate sex together.  Sometimes it’s rough and sometimes it’s sweet, but it’s always fun.  I don’t expect them to change to accomadate my broadening, kinky horizons (Sure I’d welcome a little more D/s roleplay in the future) and I’ve realized that it’s okay to satisfying and seek my BDSM release from the people who know how.

Okay, you’ve been prepared.  If the blog gets a tad kinky from at time to time, you’ll know why (not that I need to make excuses).  I am looking forward to this journey.  It’s been a long time coming.


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